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发表于 7-10-2006 06:12 PM
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发表于 8-10-2006 03:28 PM
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有時候,想管理時間
更多時候,為時間所左右
生活中有數不清的deadline
櫃子裡的罐頭沙丁魚也有儲存期限 |
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发表于 9-10-2006 11:00 PM
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"Did I marry the right person?"
It's a turmoil some couples experience a few years or even as early as a few months into the marriage.
Maybe it's the proximity of the union, which can be unsettling for some couples who might not have lived together prior to the marriage. Perhaps it's the unraveling of not-so-attractive personality traits or habits, or the tedium of familiarity. Or maybe the conflict is akin to the post-purchase dissonance that some of us feel after buying a big ticket item - "Did I buy the right product? Did I waste my money? Is there a better product that I should have bought?"
So, the response to your question "Did I marry the right person?" is, first of all, that there is no such thing as a "right" person. Notions of marrying a Mr. or Ms. Right just sets us up for failure. It gives us unrealistic expectations which no one can live up to.
The truth is, every relationship has a cycle. First you fell in love - your mind and tummy tingled with warm sensations each time you thought of your partner, you eagerly awaited their calls, used loving words, longed for their touch, found their idiosyncrasies absolutely adorable. It was a breezy and effortless endeavour.
But then, the euphoria of young love fades. And it's important to note that every couple experiences this. Gradually, the butterflies in the stomach stop fluttering, phone calls can sometimes be a bother, touch is not always welcome, harsh words are sometimes exchanged, and those quirks you found so endearing before now are just exasperating.
This is the stage that you might find yourself asking "Did I marry the right person?" You long for the days when love was effortless and beautiful and may even wonder if you might find it with someone else. Well, you might, but you might find future relationships equally unsustainable after the initial elation fades.
The key here is to realize that there is no marrying the "right" person; you can only learn to accept and love the person you marry. Of course this won't work if your spouse is abusive but in most marriages, things are really not that bad. We all feel, to some extent, a certain boredom set in when we become too familiar with something. The trick then is to spice things up - share new experiences together.
A relationship is a decision - once you've made up your mind, stick with it, iron out the kinks with your spouse, and blissful times will come.
說的有幾分道理 |
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发表于 12-10-2006 09:39 AM
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发表于 16-10-2006 11:03 AM
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生活很簡單
昨天沒去學畫
一念間,逛書店,我買了5本書. |
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发表于 17-10-2006 12:12 PM
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发表于 17-10-2006 01:15 PM
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早上起床打开冰箱,身前出现飞流直下的白色液体,宛如瀑布般往下冲,原来由牛奶形成的瀑布原来那么美丽的。 |
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发表于 17-10-2006 01:55 PM
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被人认出来有那么快乐吗?
是隐身前潜在心底的一许期望,
还是回转的一种心历路程? |
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发表于 17-10-2006 11:53 PM
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发表于 18-10-2006 12:25 AM
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发表于 18-10-2006 02:37 AM
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涼粉-涼涼的沁人心扉
木瓜,芭樂,香蕉- 我愛夏天! |
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发表于 19-10-2006 01:04 AM
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say " such as pens and pencils amongst others."
use others when there are numerous examples but you only highlight one or two amongst them
For example: We need to consider the economic and social impact amongst other factors when assessing government policy.
"last sunday was a sunny day"
although day is redundant and the sentence structure can be improved---
"It was sunny last Sunday"
"It was sunny the previous Sunday" (use previous rather than last)
"we went home before sunset" or we went home before the sun set" |
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发表于 19-10-2006 09:18 PM
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so what is soul?
it refers to one's very being
the heart of who one is
hence the part about character, feelings , thoughts is the most crucial
so a soulmate is a partner who knows us so well that they understand our very being
they know us inside out
they know us so well
they can prempt us
it refers to an extremely great degree of emotional closeness
such a person is hard to find
on how well the two people "click"
does not mean soulmates do not get upset with each other
the challenge is to keep going
learning, giving in
sharing
communicating
do not get caught up with the screen version of romance
it is an idealized form
makes you want to watch the movie
love has to be worked at
no doubt initial attraction is necessary
but after that
what keeps the relationship going?
one cannot possibly be lovey-dovey all the time
must have more to the relationship
must make the other person feel important, needed, wanted
not judged, changed, moulded into someone we want them to be based on our own ideals and notions of perfection
how do we love them for who they are...not who we hope they are
how do we keep communicating when the other person has got so much on our nerves
but must learn to forgive
which means we must learn to give in
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发表于 20-10-2006 09:11 AM
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发表于 20-10-2006 11:08 PM
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今天有點忙
忙也沒有什麼不好
偶爾忙一忙
煩惱少一少 |
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发表于 21-10-2006 12:31 AM
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